SIGNS

Notice changes before pressure becomes a crisis

There is no single way that emotional distress appears. Some men speak openly; others withdraw, become irritable, work excessively or use alcohol and other substances to cope. The important question is not whether a person matches a label, but whether there has been a concerning change in how he feels, behaves or manages daily life.

    Possible emotional signs

  • Persistent sadness, emptiness, anxiety, anger, shame or hopelessness.

  • Feeling overwhelmed, trapped, worthless or unable to cope.

  • Loss of interest, motivation, confidence or enjoyment.

    Possible behavioural and social signs

  • Withdrawing from family, friends, work or usual activities.

  • Sudden conflict, reckless decisions, aggression or unusual risk-taking.

  • Increased drinking, substance use, gambling or other harmful coping.

  • Neglecting responsibilities, appearance, medication or personal care.

Possible physical and daily-life signs
  • Major changes in sleep, appetite, energy or concentration.
  • Frequent unexplained pain, headaches, stomach problems or exhaustion.
  • A noticeable decline in work, study, relationships or routine.

  • Urgent warning signs

  • Talking about death, suicide, being a burden or having no reason to live.
  • Giving away possessions, saying goodbye, making a plan or seeking a means of self-harm.
  • Severe confusion, loss of contact with reality, violent threats or immediate danger.

  • One sign alone does not confirm a condition. Look at the pattern, duration, severity and effect on everyday life. If you are concerned, start a calm conversation and help the person reach appropriate support. In immediate danger, contact emergency services or a verified crisis service now

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